How to maintain naturally curly hair.

UPDATE: It’s August 2019 now, and I would just like to say that I’m now doing the Curly Girl Method. I no longer recommend all of the products I originally listed here, even though I still avoid sulfates. I don’t even recommend shampooing everyday now. Just low-poo once a week. To read more about that method, you can begin here.

 A photo of my mom and me. Alas, I did not inherit those huge curls and fine strands.
My curls are very tight and coarse. (Click to view larger image.)

I’ve gotten so many comments and emails regarding how to care for naturally curly hair. I guess most of the people who’ve requested for a blog entry that concentrates on natural curl care came from either my post about Park Jun Salon or Studio 546 Salon. Anyway, hope you haven’t gotten tired of waiting for the write-up, so here goes.

My curls, up close.

As I have mentioned months before, I will never go back to rebonding (chemical straightening) to tame my rebellious mane. What you see in my photos are not low-maintenance. Naturally curly hair is far from being low maintenance, which is why I cannot blame some women for wanting to end their misery by just visiting the salon and having their hair chemically straightened twice a year. Nevertheless, I think having to live with a set of specialized hair care products and leaving your locks alone (translation: NO COMBING!!!) is so much better than having to iron your roots everyday when the real curls start showing.

You also don’t have to deal with badly damaged strands on the 8th year of your chemical straightening habit. This happened to me. Imagine how dry my hair became after 8 years of rebonding, which I do twice a year. Anyway, here are the steps.

First: pick your favorite shampoo time. Only do it once a day or every other day. I usually shampoo in the morning because I don’t like the smell of my scalp when it perspires. This country is very humid and I am prone to dandruff, which gets worse when I’m very stressed.

Shampoo: HumanHeartNature Aloe Vera, Egg White & Mandarin

Of all the organic shampoos I’ve tried, this is the best. For me, at least. It doesn’t have sulfates, parabens and all those other icky things I don’t like seeing in the ingredients list. I will never ever ever endorse any shampoo that is not organic. I am not an organic products nazi, but my scalp is one area that is non-negotiable.

The reason for this is that many shampoos — other organic and natural products included — have detergents in them. Those bubbles and foaming agents that Filipinos soooooo love? They’re called surfactants. Usually the ones with the word “sulfate” or “sulphate” in them are the synthetic surfactants. These strip your scalp of its natural oils, which causes your scalp to then work overtime…by doubling the oil! That’s why I know if a product that claims to be organic isn’t really totally organic. My scalp itches to high heavens and I flake like there’s no tomorrow.

HumanHeartNature is one of the few organic shampoos that worked for me and worked with my budget. The 500mL bottle (which is A LOT of shampoo) costs about P250, while the smallest at 50mL costs about P37. Another recommendation, if you can shell out P450 a pop, would be A’Kin. A’Kin is an Australian organic body care brand that’s available at Rustan’s. With both HumanHeartNature and A’Kin, I always buy the citrus variant.

Next step is conditioning.

Conditioner: L’Oréal Nutri-Gloss Light with Pearl Protein + Citrus

Ok, this is where I ease up on the organic stuff. I haven’t found an organic conditioner that’s powerful enough to keep my riotous curls from waging war on each other. So far, only L’Oréal Nutri-Gloss conditioner works pretty well with my super dry hair. Although I try to keep the conditioner away from my scalp, I know that I still get affected somewhat. That’s why I need to shampoo everyday. There’s the trade off.

Here’s the thing with conditioner that I’ve learned. The more you put, the more relaxed your hair gets. So if I want bigger curls, I put more. If I want tighter curls, I put less and then leave the styling to the next product.

Oh, and I only comb once a day. I do this during the conditioning stage. I use a wide-toothed comb to distribute the conditioner as evenly as possible. I no longer run anything through my hair after rinsing.

After bathing, I do all my other stuff like moisturize my face and put on some clothes. The routines leave enough room for my hair to dry a little bit. Just a little bit. I need it damp — not dry — for the third step: styling.

Oh, this thing is faaaar from being cheap. I bought it from Park Jun Salon the first time I visited because that’s what the stylists recommended. Yowch, my wallet!

But Oléo-Relax works in miraculous ways. It can tame my curls without making them limp. See, everything on its labels are written in French but if my understanding of the word “disciplinant” is correct, then it actually disciplines very dry and rebellious hair. The front label also claims that it gives a “soothing, controlling care”. So basically, it’s anti-frizz. And we all know how many curly-haired women have moaned about frizzy hair.

Now, I would understand how some of my readers would balk at the price: it’s $28, roughly P1,260 if the shop selling it is honest enough not to double the amount. (And we all know how some Philippine distributors loooooove to double their mark-ups.) In some salons, this would cost more or less P2,000. I did not want to pay that exorbitant amount again, no matter how Barbie Doll-like my hair gets. So after I finished off the last drop of Oléo-Relax, I settled for these:

Styling Products: 
Vitress Hair Polish Sun Protect
Vitress Hair Repair Cuticle Coat

Hm. Of the two products, the Hair Repair (right) is the most effective. It’s colorless and has a texture that’s similar to Oléo-Relax (Vitress is just a wee bit thicker). Even though this local product is not nearly as super effective as its more expensive French counterpart, it works pretty well for something that costs only about P30-P50. It also comes in a very very small tube, the size of a lipstick, for those who love traveling.

The Hair Polish (left), on the other hand, I sometimes use with the Hair Repair. It’s not as effective in relaxing my mane but it’s the most available of all the Vitress variants. I get frustrated at times because it’s the only variant I find in Watson’s these days. The 100mL bottle costs around P46.

As with Oléo-Relax, you need to use Vitress while your hair is damp. There was one time that I ran out of Vitress and my hair started to get poofy. I nearly declared the incident an emergency because I “flew” to the nearest Watson’s and bought a bottle of the Hair Polish. Since my hair had dried out, I had to wet it all over again so that I could style it with this.

There are many ways of styling curly hair. One technique is for you to twirl your hair with your fingers, which kind of makes me look like a pa-cute idiot sometimes. Especially when it became a mannerism. (Many of us grew up with images of the stereotypical bimbo twirling her ringlets in her fingers. I shudder at the thought.) This could make your curls bigger, though. Just twirl and squeeze, twirl and squeeze. Repeat until you’re satisfied.

Another way is to scrunch up your hair while it’s damp and while applying the styling oil/cream. Scrunch, scrunch, scrunch till you’re happy with the results. This could make your curls tighter.

When the curls start getting chaotic and I don’t have any Vitress with me, I use jeweled clips (bought from Quiapo) to keep them in place. While I feel like I’m so unkempt and the glittery clips do little to help get my hair out of my face, my colleagues sort of disagree. They find the resulting disheveled look effortlessly cute, like I’m some sort of a fairy princess. Goodness knows why.

Anyhoo, I hope this write-up has answered those many questions about naturally curly hair. If there are other questions just post your comments and I’ll attempt to answer them to the best of my abilities.


  1. Andy Uyboco

    August 20, 2010 at 1:57 pm

    For some strange reason, I find it hard to relate to this post :p

  2. skysenshi

    August 20, 2010 at 4:25 pm

    Hahaha, Andy kaloka! Hahahaha! That's because you don't have hair? LOL!

    Bilis mo sumagot ah!

  3. Andy Uyboco

    August 21, 2010 at 12:09 am

    I'm obsessive-compulsive. When I see my Buzz counter go up. I JUST have to click on it and see what's going on.

  4. skysenshi

    August 21, 2010 at 12:55 am

    OMG, I can relate!! I also always check my Buzz. Although I've actually added your blogs to my Google Reader as well.

  5. ~ Molly

    August 21, 2010 at 2:11 am

    I can so relate to this! 😀

    Although mousse works wonders too. Except during summer where the sun literally fries your hair. I think I'll try that sun-protect thing 😀

  6. skysenshi

    August 21, 2010 at 2:34 am

    There was a time when I used mousse but you're right. It will fry your hair even if you use the alcohol-free ones. I go to classes in UP and I do long walks to and from the MRT station, which means I always will get exposed to the sun.

    What sun-protect thing?

  7. neko

    August 21, 2010 at 6:38 am

    hmm.. does Frizz-Ease exist there? i find that works pretty well too. that and Head and Shoulders 'Smooth and Silky' Conditioner…

    i second the finger-twirling. awkward as it is when it becomes habit. (thank god we're not blonde?) works well as a morning styling ritual tho! xD

    also, for those with bangs: circular comb w/ natural bristles. 😀

  8. skysenshi

    August 21, 2010 at 5:45 pm

    Wah, there's no Frizz-Ease here. 🙁
    And yeah, I nearly pulled a blonde joke here, too. Hahaha!

    Do you have a photo of the circular comb? That could be really useful. I don't do bangs (except when I've had my hair rebonded) because the bangs tend to shrink. XD

  9. ~ Molly

    August 22, 2010 at 2:37 am

    Ms Bea: Sorry, I meant the Vitress sun protect 🙂 It's the only thing I can afford at the moment (back to student budget ako ngayon XD)

    Thanks for this post!

  10. skysenshi

    August 22, 2010 at 3:48 am

    Ahhh! I need naman the repair. Sometimes nga I want to put on a cap or something, for when I'm going to be out in the sun.

  11. neko

    August 22, 2010 at 3:21 pm

    really? O_o hmm.. for some reason, i thought there'd be some at hair salons and all that. for the curious though, here is the website:
    it is under “Serum”

    as for the brush, my google-fu gives me the generic ceramic type:
    i believe this is just the normal type round brush you can get and they won't melt under the hair dryer. the 'natural bristles' type tend to be a bit more expensive i think. (right now, i pnly have a flat one on me, so no actual pics, sorry!)

    haha~ yeah, that was my problem too @ bang-shrinkage. but then, it isn't so bad when you use the hair dryer. xD

  12. skysenshi

    August 22, 2010 at 4:44 pm

    Ahhhh! Super useful stuff! OMG, it's like there's a whole website devoted to anti-frizz! Thanks thanks!

    As for the comb, ah, I think they have these locally. 😀

    I'm going to look for those headbands that have built-in bangs hahaha! So I don't have to use a hair dryer when I want bangs. And when I don't want bangs, I can just pull them off.

  13. Khristine Rose

    August 30, 2010 at 1:57 pm

    haha!i feel you ms bea.natry ko na ata lahat para lang sa hair ko. I use Lactacyd Baby Bath for my hair. nagkakasnow kc ako ng dandruff eh.haha! Maganda cya kc hindi siya strong tulad ng ordinary shampoo.=)

    Naisip ko ngang magpakalbo nalang tpos bili ako ng!

  14. skysenshi

    August 30, 2010 at 8:42 pm

    Siguro kasi mild shampoo sha? Ganun yung ginagawa ng iba eh, baby shampoo ginagamit.

  15. Anonymous

    August 31, 2010 at 2:43 am

    hi there! if you're familiar with shopwise supermarket they sell frizz ease and they do work! i think they have it in pcx as well.

  16. skysenshi

    August 31, 2010 at 5:06 am

    Thanks so much! That was very helpful!

  17. skysenshi

    September 28, 2010 at 10:06 pm

    Ahhh! I need naman the repair. Sometimes nga I want to put on a cap or something, for when I'm going to be out in the sun.

  18. *MrsMartinez*

    October 18, 2010 at 12:19 am

    Hi Bea
    I used to have curly hair. I had it done sa Tony and Jackey! I love it. To get the frizz out body lotion lang ginagamit ko haha Tipid na at un scent ko nag lalayering effect lol

  19. skysenshi

    October 18, 2010 at 12:28 am

    Body lotion? Seriously??? Forever ko problem ang frizz kaya minsan yung outer layers ng hair ko feeling ko kelangan i-digital perm para mapilitan wag mag-frizz. Ang weird lang kasi kulot talaga ako tapos magpapakulot para lang mawala ang frizz. Haha!

  20. eiss

    December 30, 2010 at 1:40 pm

    Thanks for this post, very helpful! The kerastase part is waaayyy too much for someone like me. I recently bought finesse mousse, haven't tried though, hope it works. I just really want to tame my super poofy hair.

  21. skysenshi

    December 30, 2010 at 2:37 pm

    Scroll down further because there's a cheaper alternative to Kerastase. 🙂

  22. Confused Curls

    January 2, 2012 at 6:43 am

    I grew up with straight hair, but then my genes turned on me during puberty and my hair became a curly, frizzy, confused mess.  I used Vitress for a while, but my hair got a little too oily for comfort. I now use Curl Defining Milk Hair Lotion by Honea. It costs P99 for 200ml, and it's available in Watsons and in most supermarkets. 🙂

  23. skysenshi

    January 2, 2012 at 12:30 pm

    Wow, that's pretty helpful info! Thanks! I will try that next time. I use minimal oil lang (Human Nature Beauty Oil), but if the weather is really hot, it becomes unbearable.

  24. eliezza

    October 26, 2012 at 5:05 am

    Thanks for posting this. I also have curly hair but I have a hard time maintaining it.

  25. skysenshi

    October 26, 2012 at 11:13 pm

    You're welcome! 🙂 Always glad to help curly, problematic hair.

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